Are you nervous about dancing in front of hundreds of people? If not you probably are a type “A” extroverted bride or groom. Most couples are probably a little more introverted and are nervous regarding the opening dance. Most parents are probably apprehensive about the dance with their children too. Last year a Father of the Bride said to me that all eyes would be on him because everyone knew he had no formal dance lessons. We set up a dance lesson for him and his daughter. The idea was to help him gain some confidence and get him over the negative. On “Sarah’s” wedding day dad did just fine and even enjoyed the applause he and his daughter received as they finished the final twirl. He told me later he had a blast and wanted to do it again! Another way to help motivate parents is to share the dance floor with other fathers and daughters or mothers and sons in the room. Here’s the way it works; first the DJ invites child and parent to the floor. He will tell your guests the title of the song you will be dancing to and then tell your guests a couple of minutes into the song we will ask other parents and children to come forward to share the floor. The fearful parent is now “covered” by the other guests and it’s a magical way to begin a reception because those other guests will come forward to dance. Photographers and videographers are happy too because they have truly recorded some wonderful moments.
Just imagine looking back on this event many years later. The lesson is to find a way to gain some measure of confidence or comfort. Its your wedding day and your family & friends will truly want to celebrate it with you.